Considerations To Know About Lodon Tantric
What Is Tantric Massage?
Tantra massage is given from the heart. In a tantric massage, the whole body gets involved and erotic zones can likewise be touched. A tantra massage takes location on the basis of equality and establishes an intimate connection in between massage provider and receiver.
Tantric Massage is all about Caring touch
A tantric massage is a loving touch loaded with attention and existence. Tantra massage is given from the heart. The majority of touch will take location through the hands (or body to body) it is in fact like that touches. The hands of the giver are connected with his/her heart. The touch is loving, always focused on the well-being of the receiver. The recipient is also present, and gets active and also feels (eventually) from the heart. Be caring!
Loaded with attention and existence throughout tantric massage
A tantra massage is a loving touch loaded with attention and existence. Both the giver and the receiver are completely present. Do not think about the other day or tomorrow. Don't browse or being busy with something else, no, your complete attention is on offering or receiving the massage. An extremely conscious touch from the heart. Receive likewise very consciously, feeling it in your heart. Tantra massage is not about regular, set patterns are actually out of the question. Whatever happens in the moment, in complete consciousness, lovingly attuned to each other and the scenario. Dreaming away or dropping off to sleep is also not planned (still, when that's what you require, it's ok).
A tantric massage isn't about a predetermined outcome
A tantric massage will always be various. It is not the technique or the preferred series of massaging that is essential, it's about exactly what is appropriate/necessary. And so the massage will be exactly that exactly what is required.
Tantric massages therefore frequently take a really unexpected course. A tantric massage does not constantly have to be "great", ending in bliss.
The best ways to get the very best from your tantric massage
Always with respect to limits
We understood it for a very long time, of course, however given that the #MeToo discoveries, some things have come up on the planet of tantra massage. Masseurs (you do not hear that much about masseuses) who force their own sexual pleasure/lust on "clients". Of course, this has little to do with tantric massage. The safety of both provider and receiver always must be guaranteed. Caring attunement constantly comes.
Set clear limits in advance
Every individual (other than when you are informed) has his limitations. This is human and is also required (read the article on securing borders. Believe in advance (both as provider and receiver) what your limits are. Make sure there is a proper intake, and a decent preparation (likewise with your lover/massage partner). Set clear limits ahead of time: about mental borders, and also make sure for clarity about physical limits. It is a misunderstanding that a tantric massage must constantly be naked, nonsense. With clothing on is likewise completely okay (however hard to work with oil then). It is likewise a misconception that a tantric massage need to be focussed on the sexual parts of the body (breasts/sex), nonsense too. Personally, we have given/received numerous tantric massages just on the head. Also, in addition, in fact each cell is sensual, however you will be surprised.
Tantric massage is an energetic massage
Trigger and let flow easily
Activating and releasing the circulation of life energy (prana) is the main part of tantra massage. Tantra massage is an energetic massage in which sexual energy likewise gets attention. In a tantric massage, the entire body participates and erogenous zones can also be touched. Naturally, always with respect for (shared) borders. When activating life energy, sexual energy plays an essential function once again. In tantra massage we play with the activation of fundamental/ sexual/ psychological/ passionate/ love/ development/ intuitive energy.
Concentrated on the natural ecstatic state of being
There is a conversation going on whether tantra massage becomes part of "genuine" tantra. Well ... Tantra is an extremely useful, body-oriented movement, a vision of life focused on growing in love and awareness. In a split 2nd you can become enlightened (by 1000% surrender), but generally, that is a procedure in time. Tantra knows different techniques to utilize on the journey to enlightenment. As far as we are concerned, tantra massage is among them. Tantra has no purpose aside from self-realization: restoring the natural (overjoyed) state of being.
Normally leading to a terrific physical, mental well-being
Tantra helps you to become more unwinded, more vibrant, more energetic, more loving and so a lot more. In fact, you "find out" to enjoy yourself, your body, your (sexual) energy and life itself. This is likewise the case with a tantra massage. Since this is precisely what happens typically: the recipient is enjoying it! Enjoying is completely enabled! A tantra massage is normally good, in some cases delicious. We, therefore, invite you to completely delight in receiving ánd providing a tantric massage. Feel, use your senses. Hear, odor, taste, feel and show that you like it. Let your body speak!
What Tantric massage isn't?
There are lots of types of massage. Naturally, all massages have particular practices and methods in common. There is a big difference with e.g.:
* Relaxation massage (intended at relaxation).
* Sports massage (concentrated on the muscles).
* Sexual massage (focused on pleasure satisfaction).
* (Body) therapy (aimed at healing).
Well since you are actually super energetic during/after the massage. A tantra massage is NOT a sensual massage either. It's a kind of style these days to see tantra massage as a therapy, but therapy is an occupation apart.
The basics of tantric massage.
For a comprehensive description, see the post on the basics of tantric massage. In summary, the following fundamentals stand out:
Tantra massage suggestions-- before you start
* Produce a warm, confutable tantric massage space (this can be done easily on both an infall massage or an outcall massage).
* Supply excellent conditions (physically, however also psychologically).
* Explain agreements!
* start by getting naked together.
Tantric massage ideas-- throughout the massage.
* Start, stay, end linked to each other.
* Constantly keep your attention on the massage.
* Make certain your massage is need free, don't press or force anything.
* Open your own heart, and open the heart of the receiver.
* Activate (sexual) energy and distribute it throughout the whole body.
* Don't only utilize your hands. Discover the body to body massage.
* Occasionally ... do nothing at all! Be 1000% present. Delight in!
* Utilize your senses.
* Offer feedback (pleasure sounds?).
* Integrate in combination (rest) minutes.
Some masseurs are more/mainly interested in what they themselves discover pleasant, enjoyable, preferable. A tantra massage is not a work task, so as a giver you can likewise enjoy yourself, still the core is that you are there for the recipient. Forget your own "needs", remain away from your own issues and above all ... do not try to require anything. Nothing has to be done, absolutely nothing is needed! Once again, don't try to enforce anything (your very own goal/body/needs/ sexuality) on the receiver! Tune in to what the recipient needs. It is as it is, and it goes as it goes. Rely on love. Possibly you are dissatisfied when somebody drops off to sleep. You might not be waiting on an emotional cry, however a tantric massage has no goal. No desired outcome. It is exactly what it is. Accept that.
Tantra massage ideas-- after the massage.
* Take sufficient time to process, to let the massage settle.
* Require time to exchange your experiences.
* Recognize that a tantric massage can have an effect for days. Be careful/alert.
* Do not right away go "full-on". Take your time and rest after the massage.
10 important tantra massage ideas (insights/rules).
* Do not work towards a goal. We get asked all the time, it this a happy ending massage? Yes it can be, it normally is but there is no pressure for you to carry out, this has to do with letting that energy flow.
* Respect limits, set clear borders beforehand. Our masseuses are mostly really open minded - they are naturally since of the nature of their work however they are masseuses - not escorts.
* Keep the wishes of the recipient in mind, naturally. Know that it can turn out differently.
* It is constantly an energetic massage. Start with the heart.
* Trigger sexual energy. Energize the entire body. Being excited is normal and desirable.
* Self-love and awareness (at the recipient) are really important! A lot can turn up.
* Look out to restored freezing moments. Prevent limitations from being crossed once again.
* Action by action becoming freer ... Growing trust ... fine. But beware: no sex! Practice makes perfect. Taking pleasure in the renewed balance and connection in between sex and heart.
* Give feedback (e.g. pleasure noises) and offer weblink combination moments (just doing absolutely nothing).
* Tantra massage is more than sexual complete satisfaction, still: can Yoni or Lingam massage take place?
Do not release, but recharge.
This is how you experience heart orgasm and body orgasm.
By this we indicate do not hurry towards the climatic ending, hold it, be in the minute, let that sexual energy construct and flood your whole body.
Possible effects of tantric massage.
Gives peace and relaxation.
Tantric massage is a massage that gets you from your head. A massage that brings peace and relaxation to your body. You will be calm and relaxed (but you will not fall asleep). During/after the massage it becomes quiet in your head (in some cases entirely empty).
Brings your life energy into motion.
Tantrix massage brings you the experience of incredibly flowing life energy. Your body armor becomes softer, thinner and even disappears. The tantric touch is healthy, massage has a potential healing result. It is possible that clogs, psychological injuries come to the surface. There might be an emotional release, consisting of physical responses such as shaking, crying, shocks. Although tantra massage is not the like recovery, this release may recover some blockades.
Makes you soft and caring.
Tantra massage opens your body and your heart. You end up being more loving, you learn exactly what it resembles to love yourself. You experience that whatever, including your sexuality, can be there, without judgment. Which gives an incredibly liberating and deeply pleased feeling.
Is taking pleasure in.
You will feel comfy in your body. The combination of relaxation and a lot of energy suggests that you can enjoy yourself, your body, your energies.
In other words, tantric massage is ...
* A loving touch.
* Loaded with attention and existence.
* The whole body participates.
* Energetic massage, including sexual energy.
* Without basic type, without predefined outcome.
* With respect to (shared) boundaries.
* Establishes a (heart) connection in between the giver and receiver.
* Concentrated on the natural, delighted state of being of the recipient.
* Generally resulting in a terrific physical, mental well-being (of both).